HOPE
When I was young, I loved to spend time with my dad while he puttered around in the basement. He would give me some scraps of wood along with a hammer and some nails, and let me attempt to build a piece of architectural wonder. When necessary for the project, I was given a saw and a hand drill, and some screws or . Dad was able to work on his project, my mother had some quiet time, and I was in hog heaven designing and building a lopsided, structurally unsound building -- or whatever it was.
My dad had some power tools but found many occasions to stick with his more basic instruments of construction/destruction. I think part of it was the feel of the drill handle as he turned it, watching the shavings slowly build up. When he used his handsaw or plane, he had time to control the depth and length of a cut before it was too late. The man had patience and would rarely mess up. He let me try his electric drill and before I could anchor the bit into the wood it ran away from me, skidded across the wood, and came straight toward me. He grabbed it and pried my fingers off the switch before I became its next victim. I got better at it but it took practice.
I had a good look at another problem with electric drills when one year, I received a 1950s Sears Roebuck dollhouse for Christmas. Of course, all the metal pieces had to be put together using tabs and slots. Dad, who was never one to follow directions, insisting they were written by people in other countries who gave wrong information on purpose, said a few choice words acceptable for fathers at this time of year and got out his electric drill and hammer. I think I had the only dollhouse drilled and bolted together and then hammered into a respectable shape. Those razor-sharp tabs would never slash a little girl’s finger but it took a long time to get all the metal shavings out of the living room rug
We had a pretty large lawn back in the day, as well as a garden. Dad would get outside each summer and tackle the grass and weeds using a push mower. A long wooden handle and some sharp rotating blades and a set of wheels made up the entire contraption. As soon as I was tall enough to reach the handle, he let me cut the level areas of the lawn. Talk about fun!!! Pushing down one row, then another, going as fast as you can! What could be better! On the even more plus side, it didn’t make much noise so the neighbors didn’t care if you were using it at eight am Sunday morning. You didn’t have to fill it with gasoline, use oil, or worry about a mechanical failure. As long as you didn’t hit a land mine you were in good shape.
We didn’t own a car. Living in a city, we had the option of public transportation or walking, most times it was walking. If I wanted to go to the library which was a long way for a little kid, my dad would take me and we would stop at the hardware store on the way and look in the windows of other stores along the way. We went through a viaduct and I hoped that a train would rumble over us, shaking the debris on the street and sidewalk. We passed the local ball field and the swings in the park. The library was finally reached and I would spend as long a time as my dad’s patience would permit. Books were selected carefully because I knew I had to carry them all the way back home. I usually overestimated my strength and stamina and my dad would end up carrying the bulk of them.
Today’s world is certainly different. Hand tools are considered antiques; landlines are becoming obsolete and the faster you can get something done is the most acceptable way. I certainly don’t believe in living in the past because there are so many things that have greatly helped humanity such as our new technology. The medical field has progressed by leaps and bounds. Transportation is at a whole new level; to the moon and beyond! There are tons more breakfast cereals to choose from.
Who would have imagined being able to build an object by giving the specs to a machine and letting it do the rest, even a house! It starts doing its thing and BAM, you have a move in ready home of your dreams! A few weeks ago there was a news program showing that today’s houses burn at a faster rate than those built years ago. Two of the causes are that trees are cut at an earlier age now which means that the lumber used in building structures is less dense and, modern, inexpensive furniture is cheaply made of this same younger wood. Just a thought, if you live in an older home with vintage or antique furniture you have more time to get out unscathed.
Old ways versus new ways aside, we can draw some wisdom from both and come to a place where both can fit in. Patience pays off. If someone wants to learn something that you’re capable of teaching them, do it. Let them try, and if they screw up, give them more chances to succeed. Take a walk with a young person. Spend time listening; you may be surprised by someone else’s thoughts. People will open up and express themselves to your face more than they ever would via texting or emailing and maybe, just maybe they’ll explain the meaning of life, or how to fix your slow computer.
The world today moves at light speed. Stop and smell the roses while we still can.
Sharon
John Thomas Rourke, the SURVIVALIST, sits on a boulder outside the Retreat; a thin cigar hangs loosely between his fingers. The wind is blowing but with so many objects surrounding him, it’s hard to tell exactly from which direction it originates. It flows around the rocks and through the canopy of trees above and around him, whispering, and then loudly gusting to a roar.
Although the sky is filled with a scattering of clouds, Rourke can still make out the sun’s slow descent. The evening chill will soon follow. Alone, he contemplates the state of the world. The days of savage wild men and cannibals may be long gone for the most part but other evils still remain. The taste for power has never been stronger. Some take and hold power through brute strength, some through financial wealth, and some through control of the media.
Safe homes are filled with women and children hiding from abusive family members who use their power to control their lives. They have no money of their own, may not speak the local language, and are kept isolated from the community. They live in fear of physical abuse but are not even aware of the psychological damage done to them. For some, the cycle continues. For some, they are able to break away and find help. Rourke thinks of Natalia and of her uncle’s intercession in her abusive marriage. He wonders if good people still exist.
Money is power. It buys material things that keep families afloat. It buys influence. Money buys people, their hearts and souls. Money is a drug that some people can never get enough of. Money buys political support and influential jobs. Money buys love.
He wonders why is there such diversity among reports of news. Shouldn’t they all be telling us the facts instead of swaying the story to fit in with a particular agenda by adding or subtracting to the original, or with the insertion of additional comments? Why do you only hear good things about certain persons or companies on particular news outlets whereas another venue may have an entirely different point of view? It’s noticeable particularly when it concerns politicians.
Talking screens have taken control over common sense. People we don’t really know tell us how to dress, what to eat, and what type of bathroom tissue to use. The screens applaud the virtues of some and attempt to destroy those of others. The masses stare at the screens and never see what is right in front of them. The real world is in one dimension, the screen draws them into another, less complicated one.
People hurt other people with no thought of the consequences. They hurt with their words, their fists, their guns, or their vehicles. They hurt people they don’t even know just to satisfy their anger or inability to cope with racial, religious, and philosophical differences.
After all the world has been through, why do we still have wars? In the end, no one really wins except the ones who supply the weapons. The people who start them don’t get bloody. They don’t even get dirty. The soldiers get hurt and die. The medical personnel get hurt and die. The war correspondents get hurt and die. The women and children get hurt and die. Homes, schools, and hospitals get destroyed. Civilizations crumble. For what?
Rourke reminds himself that there are still good people in the world who love their country and respect law and order. These people are trying to raise their children to have questioning minds and value the rights of all, not just those who hang on the farthest edges of the left and right. Much is expected from these people to clear the excrement from the arena and do battle to save humanity from itself.
The sun has set and the temperature is dropping. A nighttime hush has settled in and the creatures nearby have found their way back to the cave, their nest, or their burrow. Rourke pulls out his battered Zippo from his jeans and lights his cigar. He inhales and watches the smoke curl up into the air, contemplating the state of the world and what a mess it’s in. Can life go on like this, he thinks? Have we finally screwed up things beyond compare? He stands up, stretches, and heads back inside, already thinking up ways to put things back in order. He won’t give up and neither should we.
Sharon
Don tope lives in the Midwest with his wife, seven children, and three dogs. In his life he has been a nurse, construction worker, packing house worker, and worked for a commercial honey producer. He has spent over twenty years in Information Technology. You can learn more about Don and where to find his various books at Haniel House Press. https://hanielhouse.com/ and https://books2read.com/u/mvqkKJ
Sharon