EXPIRATION DATES: LET'S USE THEM WISELY!

Around this time of year, some of us start thinking of making special treats for friends and family.  We go digging around in the pantry and fridge for ingredients we remember having left over from our last foray into Master Chef mode.  Gathering our treasures together, we take a closer look to make sure there’s enough for our recipes and, to casually check the sell-by or expiration dates. 

Surprise!  The yellow cake mix you forgot to make for Tommy’s tenth birthday is still waiting for you and Tommy, dear boy, is playing on the local high school football team, this, his senior year.  The chocolate chips have turned a dusty gray and the raisins are little bits of rock-hard particles, not to mention the marshmallows have turned to dust.  Most of the containers on the spice rack could be sold as antiques and the vanilla extract has completely evaporated.  The back of the fridge where you haven’t looked in a long time is occupied by totally unidentifiable creatures and the freezer…well, you know.  Time to make up a shopping list!

“Use it or lose it!”  When I was young, my mother had a set of dishes that I really liked.  They were the ones she put out when we had company or family gatherings.  They weren’t terribly expensive or anything but they had scalloped edges and pink flowers and just triggered happy thoughts. When I inherited those dishes, I put them in boxes to save for just the right occasion.  Years went by and those dishes remained boxed up and after a few moves, some pieces got broken.  Nowadays I do bring out those dishes for special occasions except now we don’t have enough plates for everyone in the family.  Maybe we would if I had taken them out and used them sooner instead of saving them. 

Most things have expiration dates; some are easily visible and some not so visible.  Food from the grocery store has dates stamped on the containers.  Appliances and vehicles fall apart soon after the warranty runs out.  Bubbles don’t last forever in soft drink bottles and summer blossoms fade with the winter cold.  Some not so obvious expiration dates involve patience, love, and mortality.

Let’s face it; we are all going to expire!  Get over it!  As the end of this year rapidly approaches, many of us start regretting what we’ve not accomplished rather than what we have.  I coulda!  I shoulda!  I didn’t!  Too late now!  I regret it!  I’m useless!

We are guaranteed the moment we are in, nothing more.  What we do with that moment is up to each of us.  We can regret the past or be optimistic about the future.  It’s never too late to put aside former differences or strained relationships; sometimes a simple, “I’m sorry,” can heal old wounds.  If not, at least you tried.  Maybe it is time to learn a new skill, include new friends into your life, write a book or paint a picture.  Look ahead in your life!  Be wild and crazy!

When your expiration date comes up, make sure it can be said that every bit of you was appreciated and savored.

Sharon 

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QUESTIONS and REFLECTIONS REGARDING THE HOLIDAYS

For some of us, summer has passed by too quickly, for others it lingered way too long.  Regardless, winter is approaching and the holiday season is in full swing.  Stores and businesses around here started decorating for Christmas before Halloween.  Bell ringers have been ringing away for weeks already and Christmas tree lots are open for business.  What’s the rush?  Can’t we enjoy one holiday at a time?  I guess that’s not the proper way to do things today; hurry and get it all done at once is the new mantra.

Something I’ve been giving too much thought to lately is candy.  I’m talking about the special candy in the local grocery stores bagged for Halloween consumption that arrived on the shelves in August.  It’s amazing how many people put those bags in their shopping carts every week until the trick or treaters arrive on the last day in October.  Those people were certainly ready for the arrival of the hoards of sugar-sucking children. 

By the last week in October the candy was marked down to half price then it disappeared for a few seconds and bins and bins of Christmas chocolate took over, nestled in with shiny decorations and ornaments.  Now I imagine the leftover Halloween candy is somewhere in the store’s storage area ready to be returned to the distributor.  Part of me instead imagines little elves perched on wooden pallets ripping open bags of candy and putting them into new bags marked for Christmas.  Then they get hired to remove the plastic covers on the boxed chocolates the day after Thanksgiving and replace it with covers depicting a jolly Christmassy graphic.  Hmm, are you thinking ahead to what to give your valentine?

Another question I have concerns sweet potatoes.  Most of us like sweet potatoes or yams but the price my local store had them for was a little pricey.  Lo and behold, two weeks before Thanksgiving the price dropped from $1.49 a pound to $.29 a pound.  I took a good look at them sitting on a table in the produce department.  They looked just like the ones I saw the week before.  What changed?  I picked a few up to take a closer look.  I could have sworn I recognized some of them from my previous shopping trips.  I grabbed as many as I could and put them in my cart before the upper class, expensive ones that would taste so much better, returned.

Let’s talk turkey for a moment.  How many turkeys do you cook during the year?  How many do you usually see in the grocery store?  For a little over a month during this time of the year, the frozen chickens and ducks are swept away and replaced by their cousins, huge solid blocks of headless turkeys with a little piece of useless plastic embedded in its flesh and some other bird’s neck and organs stuffed up its butt.  As with the sweet potatoes, the prices drop so dramatically that you convince yourself to buy the biggest one you can lift up without the help of a derrick. 

Putting your groceries in the trunk of your vehicle and tearing out of the parking lot you think you hear a thumping sound that you just can’t place.  Not to worry.  AC/DC sounds better if you turn up the volume.  You pull into the garage and open the trunk to find fresh produce everywhere in various stages of ruination.  Asparagus squashed, blueberry and strawberry stains everywhere.  The expensive bakery goods are now mixed together and the only edible portions need to be spooned off the jumper cables that you’ve never used. Your turkey-flavored bowling ball is new resting out of reach in the farthest corner of the trunk.  After climbing into the trunk to retrieve it you realize that you are now kneeling in broken glass and rather expensive wine.

The salvage operation takes longer than anticipated as well as the glass removal from your knees.  The purple wine stains are going to remain for a while.  The grocery bags are emptied and what can be is put away.  That’s when you realize that the turkey is too big to fit on the refrigerator shelf.  Everything comes out of the fridge, the shelf is adjusted and the food gets rearranged with the turkey which will be thawing for the next week or so, taking up most of the room.  Exhaustion sets in and after a glass or two of your cheap wine, you’ll worry about things tomorrow.

Millions of people will be gathering together to share a meal with family and friends this week.   Regardless of how dry the turkey comes out or who found the giblet bag still inside; regardless of how many Brussels sprout casseroles showed up unannounced, remember that this is the time for celebration.  Compliment those who did the cooking and or cleanup.  Stay away from religion and politics.  Don’t fall asleep and snore too loudly while others are watching the game.  Stay away from those that annoy you and don’t stand around in the kitchen when others are trying to cook.  Talk to the children; they might someday be taking care of you. 

Be safe. The weather is going to be frightful and ground and air traffic will try your patience. Being late is so much better than not showing up at all.  Life is short.  Don’t waste it on petty differences or long ago spats.  Make this a time to relax, enjoy and appreciate what you’ve got and to remember those who may not be so lucky.  And, watch out for frozen turkeys falling from the sky.

Happy Thanksgiving!  Sharon     

Old Joe

He drove an old pickup, the paint so old that the color was indistinguishable.  His overalls were worn, and it looked like he always had on the same long-sleeved work shirt but both always appeared clean.  He rented a house down a dirt road that belonged to a mill owner.  I never actually saw the house but when it got dark and my dog, Shelby and I sat on the porch after dinner, lights could be seen through the scrub trees growing wild between my house and his.  In the warm summer nights, if the frogs weren’t making a racket down at the pond, I could hear bits of conversation, sometimes laughter. When the wind blew right, the strong smell of cigarette smoke journeyed my way. 

Occasionally when I was near the road working in the garden, he would slow up and wave, yelling “Howdy Missy” through the open window of his truck and then continue driving on.  Other times he would stop to pass the time for a few moments and we’d discuss the weather or maybe he’d comment on my summer garden, asking what was growing the best and we’d both complain about the bugs and fire ants as well as the rain or the lack of it.  After a bit, he’d run an old but strong-looking hand through his bushy white hair and replace his brown fedora on his head, saying his goodbyes. Joe would explain that he had to pick up some stuff for the boys.

“The boys” were homeless men that he invited to stay at his place in exchange for whatever they could afford to pitch in towards his rent.  Some of his boarders were on parole, some had substance abuse problems, and some just needed a place to stay until they got their heads on straight.  I don’t know how many would be there at any given time; they would come and go.

Joe was a regular at our small-town grocery store.  He bought produce that had seen better days and would haggle with the butcher over lowering the price of meat that he insisted needed to be reduced, pointing out a speck or a spot of discoloration.  The people there were generous and, knowing his situation, let him talk them down to a price agreeable to all concerned, even throwing in occasional freebies.

Wanting to do more than just feeding his flock, Joe scoured the area for anything that needed fixing.  The bed of his pickup might carry home furniture that needed some sprucing or lawnmowers that had seen their day.  He picked up vehicle parts and engines, planning for when they might just need them.  Some said he just collected junk. 

A large metal building that he used for a workshop was overflowing with his finds.  Aided with tools that Joe provided, the men under his care would do what they could to refurbish anything remotely restorable.  When he came back with an exceptionally good haul I could hear the drills and saws working their magic and the rumble and roar of the portable generator.

Some of the people who lived nearby wanted Joe and “his boys” removed, complaining that the men were a nasty lot who were probably dealing drugs and doing other despicable acts.  “The building is a fire hazard,” they’d say.  “Who knows what he’s got in there?  Too much stuff is piled around the place.  Looks bad.  Kids could get in trouble!”  Occasionally a police vehicle drove down that dirt road; my guess was they did so primarily to appease the complainants.  They knew Joe was harmless and that he kept the men in line, making sure to get them to meetings with probation officers or their drug and alcohol rehab sessions. 

One afternoon Joe stopped his truck for a quick visit.  He was on his way to his son’s house to spend the afternoon with his grandchildren.  This was the first time he had mentioned a family and I got the impression that visits like this were not frequent occurrences.  In one drawn-out breath he told me he had just turned eighty-five and, that he had Cancer.  Caught off guard and not sure what to say other than wishing him a Happy Birthday, I let him get back into his vehicle and watched him drive down the road, hoping that his time with the grandkids would be a good time. Should I have given him a hug or at least taken his hand in mine?  The easy answer would be yes, I should have.  In reality, neither one of us would have been comfortable.

That was the last time I saw him.  I did see the building get emptied out and eventually, the house behind it had new tenants.  Maybe, I thought, his family had found room for him with them so he could enjoy the time still allotted to him in a caring environment much like he tried to do for “his boys.”  Maybe it was time for family reconciliation?  Later I found out that Joe had died alone in that house down the dirt road, behind the scrub trees.  At night.  Alone in the dark.  Damn them all.  Rest in peace, Joe.

Sharon

The Thin Line between Science Fiction and Science Fact

             A point was brought up that THE SURVIVALIST series has become too “science fiction” over the years.  I don’t know.  I’ll leave that up to the readers to decide but I will state my case as to why we let it happen.

            In 1876, Alexander Graham Bell makes the world's first long-distance telephone call, over a distance of about 6 miles.  With the device we carry with us, we can project our words into outer space, take studio-quality photographs, grocery shop, and play games.  Henry Ford started his auto business in 1903.  Many people might say he also was the inventor of highway congestion.  The Wright brothers are credited with the invention of the first working airplane that same year thus causing mass disturbance to our once peaceful skies.

            My dad was born in 1898.  At a very early age, he helped to support his family by propelling a horse-driven wagon through the streets of New York, making deliveries.  Sort of an early version of what would become UPS or FedEx.  Here is this little kid controlling a huge animal, pulling a dray wagon past peddlers who are pushing wooden carts loaded with produce while keeping a watchful eye out for the horse-drawn trolley carrying its passengers about town. It must have been an exciting place to live and to watch the world change so quickly.

            Eager to see more of the world, he rode the rails wherever they took him until he eventually settled down.  He found work, bought himself a Ford and eventually dated and married my mom.  They rented part of a two-flat apartment where she washed clothes in a large tub, using a washboard and hung everything outside to dry. They eventually got a telephone with a two-party-line, a black desk set with a chunky cord, which they used until the late 1950s.

            By the time I started working in downtown Chicago during the late 60s, I too rode a trolley each morning, although this trolley was powered by a cable line above the street that fed electricity to the vehicle via a pole that could swivel enough to allow the trolley some flexibility to maneuver.  Occasionally, the driver made a move that allowed the pole to disengage from its power source and passengers were stranded until help arrived to reconnect.  Today we have cars and trucks that can travel driverless.  Bullet trains in China travel at speeds of up to 200 MPH and a Tesla Roadster can do 250 MPH.  Yes, it’s claimed that a Hennessey Venom F5 clocks at 301 MPH!  My first car was a 1960 Hillman Minx that maxed out at 65 MPH; any faster and it shook so badly you could barely hold onto the steering wheel.

            When Jerry and I first started planning out the continuation of The Survivalist story after the Rourke’s had slept for many hundreds of years, we realized a decision had to be made as to what sort of world they were returning to.  Would it be inhabited by animal-like humans, cult worshipers or would it be a dead, wasteland?  Our decision was to create a world just as diverse as the one before.  Some things might have taken a step back, some remained the same and some ideas took a giant leap forward.

            Many of the technological advances written about in Mid-Wake were real or at least on the drawing boards.  We consulted with experts in the diving and underwater fields as to what would be coming in the future and we incorporated these advances into the books giving our characters a glimpse of what the new world could be under the right circumstances. 

            Yes, The Survivalist has aliens and cloaking devices, and advanced medical procedures, as well as underwater cities, but it also has crooked politicians, kidnappers and rapists, just as well as people who are determined to make the world a better place.  Our real world has encountered the genius and vision of da Vinci as well as the evil madness of Hitler. The world of The Survivalist should be no different.  One world is real; the other is fiction, catalogued as science fiction or adventure.  Fiction is not real but can reflect both reality and what the author sees as our future.

            John Thomas Rourke is still fighting for the same values he did in the 1980s and he and his companions will continue to do so.  So don’t think that Rourke’s world has changed too much, same problems, maybe different solutions.  When it comes time, Rourke pulls one of his thin dark cigars from his shirt pocket and the battered Zippo from the watch pocket in his jeans and lights up.  He shrugs his shoulders to straighten his Alessi shoulder holster carrying his twin Detonics pistols and mounts his Harley, ready to take on another battle. 

Sharon

Don't Let Words Become Obsolete

I don’t know, maybe it’s an age issue.  Maybe people aren’t talking to me because they think I’ve gone deaf.  Maybe they think I don’t understand the real world today. Maybe they feel the need to stick to only the basic means of communication because of some cognitive deficiency I’ve developed.  Maybe they are only attempting to amuse me.  Maybe…

                Communication skills have taken on a whole different meaning lately.  Complete sentences are becoming obsolete.  Words are being replaced by pictures.  Complete thoughts are watered down into one-syllable utterances.  Don’t get me wrong, if I’m not paying attention and my next few steps could take me plunging down the side of a cliff, an authoritative STOP will work just fine.  By the same token, turning a love sonnet into a one-liner just doesn’t do the trick.

                Jerry was a man of many words and lots of emotions.  He could turn a simple statement into an epistle.  A greeting card was simply a pretty picture with some nice words and plenty of blank space left over for his feelings.  When we were teenagers he was out of town for two weeks and every day I received multi-page letters written on both sides with his terrible handwriting filling me in on the day’s happenings and letting me know how much he missed me.  I didn’t need the reassurance, we were always meant to be, but the pictures he painted with his words made separation more bearable for two young lovers.

                In today’s world of cell phones and internet connections, our communications would have been in an entirely different ballgame.  Would I have gotten messages with hearts and little round faces showing different expressions?  How about hashtags and abbreviated words?  Never abbreviated words!!!  I’m sure I would have gotten emojis and hearts and whatever else looked appropriate but a picture of a heart and the words I Love You are not the same.  I’m sorry for your loss, I’m happy for you or I’m angry, are words that should come from our hearts, not generated by some computer program.

                Just maybe, if we could go back to saying what we mean or writing down our true emotions, we might be taken more seriously.  Maybe if we took the time and energy to actually talk about how we feel or listen to someone else’s concerns, there would be less anger or frustration and more understanding.  Just saying.  Don’t know if it would do any good in this world of pent up rage and secrets that we don’t know how to share but maybe it wouldn’t hurt to give it a try.  Maybe… 

Sharon

God wove a web of loveliness,

Of clouds and stars and birds,

But made not anything at all

So beautiful as words.

Anna Hempstead Branch